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Eugene Bubel
B: 1940-06-27
D: 2018-05-22
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Bubel, Eugene
Ann Connelie
B: 1944-03-14
D: 2018-05-20
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Connelie, Ann
Marion Worden
B: 1937-10-24
D: 2018-05-08
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Worden, Marion
Sally Wallace
B: 1925-07-19
D: 2018-04-18
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Wallace, Sally
Henry Clemens
B: 1924-06-25
D: 2018-04-09
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Clemens, Henry
Howard Nelson
B: 1932-03-29
D: 2018-03-19
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Nelson, Howard
Edward Simms
B: 1921-03-12
D: 2018-03-19
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Simms, Edward
Gilbert DuBois
B: 1918-06-25
D: 2018-03-16
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DuBois, Gilbert
Glenn Pike
B: 1927-05-12
D: 2018-03-02
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Pike, Glenn
Anthony D'Ambra
B: 1947-12-09
D: 2018-02-20
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D'Ambra, Anthony
Kristi Miller
B: 1951-10-13
D: 2018-02-17
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Miller, Kristi
Edward Clemens
B: 1922-05-21
D: 2018-02-14
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Clemens, Edward
Jon King
B: 1939-06-11
D: 2018-02-10
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King, Jon
George Banks
B: 1933-06-28
D: 2018-01-27
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Banks, George
John Hanley
B: 1936-10-29
D: 2018-01-22
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Hanley, John
Aaron Higgins
B: 1980-01-11
D: 2018-01-18
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Higgins, Aaron
Doris Curry
B: 1924-05-08
D: 2018-01-09
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Curry, Doris
Janette DeLaVernge
B: 1927-10-11
D: 2018-01-02
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DeLaVernge, Janette
Marcia Barber
B: 1947-06-20
D: 2017-12-20
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Barber, Marcia
Olive Ruth Bedford
B: 1943-01-16
D: 2017-12-10
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Bedford, Olive Ruth
Patricia MacIntyre
B: 1933-07-07
D: 2017-12-07
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MacIntyre, Patricia

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Joseph Singer
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Joseph D. "P.K. Pounder" Singer
1983 - 2017
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Karen Hart
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Ewalk or kara as the family knows
"we had our times but you had the potential to be a good man. i will always miss "
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Auntie Dar
"A smile that will be missed, but will light the heavens! "
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"The Flame that burns twice a bright burns half as long. love you buddy!"
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Jeremy and Emily
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Tips on Writing a Message of Condolence

You may not know exactly what you want to say in your Book of Memories™ condolence message. In fact, this may be the first time you've ever been faced with sharing your feelings or offering comforting words to someone who is grieving a loss. Whether it's the first time, or the fifth, we're here to offer some assistance. We've compiled some tips, and brought together a list of expressive words you can use in your condolences.

Tip #1: Be sincere. It's important to mean what you say, on the deepest emotional level. Yes, we know, "saying what you mean" can be harder - that's why we're here.

Tip #2: Keep it simple. You don't need to say much more than "I'm sorry for you loss," yet it's always wonderful to share a personal memory of their loved one, if you have one.

Tip #3: Don't tell them you know how they feel. Because you can't really know; even if you've endured the loss of a loved one in the past - your grief was yours, and this is theirs.

Tip #4: Share how you felt when you heard the news. Perhaps you were shocked, disbelieving, or deeply saddened. Let them know how the passing affected you personally.

Tip #5: Share Remind them that you will always hold the memory of their loved one close to you. It will be a comfort to them to know that their loved one will be remembered.

A Short List of Appropriate Phrases:

  • Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
  • Please accept my condolences on the loss of your partner.
  • With deepest sympathy for your loss.
  • Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
  • Please know our loving thoughts embrace you each and every day.
  • Thinking of you in these difficult times and sending you love.
  • With heartfelt condolences.
  • Wishing you comfort at this sorrowful time.
  • Sharing in your sorrow, thinking of you and wishing I could be there
  • to hold your hand.
  • May the love of those around you, help you through the days ahead.
  • Hold tight to memories for comfort.
  • Lean on your friends for strength, and always remember how much you are cared about.
  • As you comprehend this profound loss, let yourself cry knowing each tear is a note of love rising to the heavens.
  • Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
  • Peace, prayers and blessings.
  • Words cannot even begin to express our sorrow.
  • You are in our prayers.
  • May your memories give you strength.
  • Remember that we love and care about you.
  • May the love of those around you help you through the days ahead.

After writing and posting a message of condolence to the family, you may also wish to make a memorial donation as a tribute to their loved one, or send flowers to the family home or memorial service. However you choose to express your concern and pay tribute, please know this: it will be deeply appreciated.